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You are the butterfly...You are the magic!!

6/26/2019

Good morning my friends...I hope you are all finding yourselves well.

This inspiration is amazing. We never take the moments to realize how we have come through the darkness to make our world wonderful. We always plug away complaining or crying about how tough things are, but when we are on the other side we don't realize that it was us that transformed to make our situations different.

We all transform into butterflies many times in our lives. It is time that we stop to realize that it is us who goes within to pull the beauty out of ourselves so we can keep moving forward.

Have you ever wondered how you got through the things that you have? Have you ever stopped to think that there was a period of time where you had to go within and really search for the strength to keep going, only to find that you were the magic the whole time?

We are all butterflies in our lives. Life allows us to shine beautifully all the time, but we never notice our own beauty. We never realize that it was our hard work that turned us into the magical creature we truly are.

Start to pay attention to the wonderful things you have been through. Look at what it is that you did to make everything change in your life. You will start to see how magnificent you really are. The beauty inside you shines brighter than anything else. We are so magical; it would be great if we actually realized it.

Have an amazing day my butterflies.

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What you resist will persist...but don't get lost in it.

6/12/2019

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Good afternoon my friends. I hope you are finding yourselves well on this beautiful Wednesday afternoon.

I came across this inspiration today and it left me remembering how I used to be in life. I was remembering how I would stay stuck in my story of what happened to me, and get so angry that it would leave me feeling lost and incomplete. I would blame my problems on everyone without taking responsibility for my own actions.

When I started to really look at where my life was headed, I was not happy. I hit road block after road block. I thought the world was literally against me for whatever it was that I did. I always felt like punishments were always being doled out to me. It was not a good life to live.

One of the most precious days of my life was a mentor of mine telling me to pull my head out of my ass. She said "Nothing is happening to me, it is all happening for me." I didn't understand what she was saying. She had no idea what I had been through and was still going through. I thought it was so unfair to be judged that way. Yes, my feathers were ruffled for sure and my mentor knew it. However, she also explained to me why everything was actually happening for me instead of to me.

Everything that I had ever been through in my life was all for learning so I can be powerful in my life. She made me really think about it before I could even say a word. She had me read a couple of books so I understood exactly where she was coming from. One book was the "Prayer of Jabez", a book that allowed for me to ask for what I wanted. All I had to do is love myself enough to realize that no matter what has happened in my life, I have always been receiving wisdom through experience. The other book was "The Four Agreements", now that was a book that allowed me to dive right into self-development. I could not get enough. Everything started to make sense to me; not right away, but eventually. I was able to see all the lessons I had to go through in life, so I could be the person I am today. Everything I had ever gone through was not for nothing, even thou I did not understand it at the time, I look at my life now and what I do, I would never change a thing.

I was able to learn that everything has some sort of purpose. How we deal with it will allow us to suffer or not, we always have a choice. I had chosen a life of suffering until my mentor helped me see that there are always choices. What I choose is my responsibility no matter what. I can suffer or not; I had to choose. Eventually I chose not to suffer and my life started to change.

I look at everything I have been through, all the knowledge I have gained through it all. I can help so many people because of all the suffering I have been through in my life. I chose my life. I had to be responsible for all my decisions. When I was able to acknowledge and be responsible, life got so much easier. I began to learn faster, and get rewarded in ways I never knew I actually deserved. I am so grateful for my entire life.

Look at your life. What is it that you are holding on to that you are lost in the emotions? Start to look at different perspectives as to why you went through something. There is always something for us to learn and teach. It all depends when we decide to stop the blame game and take responsibility of our actions. I get things actually happen to us, some out of our control, but even still find the lesson. You will be grateful that you did.

Just Rita Real Talk

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Feed Yourself The Love You Need...See What Happens!

6/5/2019

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Good morning my friends...I hope you are all finding yourselves well today. It's a beautiful day, the sun is shining and hopefully the rain stays away for a bit.

Have you ever stopped and thought about how you think and talk? Have you ever noticed how you react to things instead of responding to them in a different way? Have you ever noticed how much you attract the stuff into your life that you don't want?

When I think about those questions, I am looking at my life and who I am being in the moments that matter. I used to be someone who would agree with someone else's attitude and draw that energy into mine. You know what I am talking about; the ones who say nothing good happens to them, or if it will happen it will happen to them. Then I would start to notice that I would start to have crappy things happen to me.

One of the hardest things I had to learn was changing my language and how I talked to myself. When I agreed with someone's negative attitude, I would notice the same things happening to me. When I started to say to myself, "that may be true for you, but it is not true for me" I would change the way things were happening around me. I would notice that their energy was not leaking into mine. I also noticed how much happier I was becoming.

When you start to really pay attention to what you think and say, and you start to change your behavior; your whole world will change very quickly. I have been practicing this new way of being for the past couple of years. I have to say the more I see everything from a different perspective; I am not suffering in my life. I find that my world is becoming what I have always desired. I attract the people in my life who will keep my vibration high. I attract the love that I have always been longing for my entire life.

One thing that has really come into my life is love. As I have really started to say loving kind things to myself and really believe it, I have been able to attract the kind of love I have always desired. I have received the most beautiful man into my life, because he matches the love I have for myself. It's as if God place the most precious gift right in front of me. I am at a place in my life where I now only speak love into me, and I have received someone in my life that is showing me what true love is. I have never experienced love from someone as I am with this amazing man. When I brought my son into this world that was the first time I experienced; a mother's love. I have two very special men in my life that are showing me things about love I never knew could be possible.

When you start to look at everything in your life from a different perspective and see the lesson in all of it...you get to receive gifts you never would have imagined. I am so grateful at this time in my life. The world that is swirling around me is amazing and I would never change a thing in my life.

Take a look at how you think and speak, along with looking at a situation that is going on in your life. Where can you make some changes so you can be experiencing the very best?

Have an amazing day my friends.

Just Rita Real Talk

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Rita OWEN

I have been through a lot in my life just as everyone else; I have found that what I have gone through has always been for my highest good. There is not a thing that I would change in my life; I would keep the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Sharing my lessons with you helps me to be the best version of myself. What I have learned, I share so you are the best version of yourself.

When we stand together we are strong and tall making a more confident and loving world. We are forgiving our past and embracing all that is learned. We then are teaching our children to be human and the best version of themselves.

Rita Owen