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Don't wait to be happy...

1/25/2023

Good morning my friends; I hope you are having a fantastic Wednesday morning. The sun is shining, the snow is falling, the chill is in the air, the roads are wet, and yet it is a beautiful day.

However, you perceive your day, make it a wonderful day no matter what. It's time to start enjoying your life and who you are, no matter what is surrounding you. If you see the beauty in what is happening around you, you are starting to enjoy your life. It does not matter whether or not everything is going perfectly in your life because you know it is all falling into place for your highest good. But, on the other hand, when you constantly sweat the small stuff, you are making your life miserable. You are seeing that nothing is ever turning out in your life.

If you wait for everything to fall into place in your life so you can be happy, you will never be satisfied. As your life falls into place, you will have twists and turns that will take you in different directions so you can gain knowledge. You will have opportunities to focus, reinvent, restructure, or even go in another direction. That is the beauty about falling into place; you don't know where those pieces will land. If you dread everything before it lands or judges the progress, you will never be happy when everything falls into place.

Just some food for thought. Ask yourself, "How is your day going"? Your answer to yourself dictates how you see your life.

Have a fantastic day!!!

Love, Rita

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Don't sweat it; keep breathing and moving forward.

1/23/2023

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Good afternoon my friends...Here we are on January 23, 2023!!! It has been a long time since I have written, and it's time to get back on track.

I have missed sharing my perspective and inspiration. Life, in general, has been so busy and full of changes it has been hard to keep up. I let many things fall to the wayside, and it's time to pick them back up. I have found I am at my happiest when I am helping people see something great for themselves, no matter what is happening in their lives. When I help people, I am also helping myself move forward.

We look at our lives as if there is not enough time to do what we want. I, too, have had that same problem. I realize my age and feel I should be somewhere else. When changes happen, I pull myself further from where I want to be. Then I start to feel like I am failing in one way or another. Especially when we share our goals with people around us, and those we have confided in seem to keep track of our progress. We start to let our ego take over and make ourselves wrong for the lack of or the changes in our life.

Even now, as I am sitting here writing, making myself wrong for waiting so long to pick this blog back up. I love writing and sharing my perspective with others, but then I start to get in my head about the responsibility of keeping it going. Who's going to listen to me? Do I have something worth saying? Can I help people? All those things that run through our minds. It's crazy. Why are we programmed this way?

I do know; is that we are here to learn and grow and become the best versions of ourselves daily. We are here to stretch our souls by going through trials and tribulations so we can understand that everything always works out for our highest good. We never realize it in the middle of our chaos, but it always works out. We gain much knowledge to pass along to others so their situations become less daunting.

Take your life one moment at a time, stay present, and keep yourself breathing. Everything miraculously falls into place. You are right where you need to be right now, don't sweat it. You will get where you need to be in time. Enjoy the ride.

I love you...Rita

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Rita OWEN

I have been through a lot in my life just as everyone else; I have found that what I have gone through has always been for my highest good. There is not a thing that I would change in my life; I would keep the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Sharing my lessons with you helps me to be the best version of myself. What I have learned, I share so you are the best version of yourself.

When we stand together we are strong and tall making a more confident and loving world. We are forgiving our past and embracing all that is learned. We then are teaching our children to be human and the best version of themselves.

Rita Owen