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Start to see the joy in your life...you will see the plan isn't that bad...

1/16/2019

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Good morning my friends, I hope you are finding yourselves feeling amazing this beautiful crisp day.

I came across this inspiration today, “Sometimes you have to let go of what you thought life would be like, and learn to find joy in the story you are actually living.”  What a great thought to ponder.

Every day I am in my life, I have good days and bad days…but the bad days are nothing compared to what someone else may be going through.  I look at where I am at in life, it was not in the plan but here I am.  I am with myself, in my own space with two kitties figuring it all out.

Now, I could be living my life like a victim and being angry, not caring and just giving up; or as I am doing, I am living my life as powerful as I can to keep moving forward.  Trust me; I talk myself off the ledge often.  I rationalize situations in my life so I become powerful in the moment and not beat myself up.  I have to tell myself to be patient; everything comes in Diving Planning and Timing. 

I am taking the moments to the days, to the weeks and so on, to really appreciate who I am.  What is it that I actually want in my life; who do I want in my life, and most importantly how am I growing to be the best version of who I am. 

It is the New Year; we all have an opportunity to take full advantage of new beginnings, new ways of thinking, new ways of speaking, and new ways of being.  We have this opportunity to change what we don’t like and start to change our story into the one we desire.  The question you have to ask yourself is, are you truly ready to change your story, or are you still going to talk about how it doesn’t work.  Even when there is a lot of stress in ones’ life you can still find moments in your life when you were happy.

Here is our problem; when we have a lot of stress, drama, heartache we can’t find anything in our lives that actually work.  We see everything as doom and gloom…we can’t seem to get past what is in front of our face.  One thing for us to start realizing as soon as we can is to think about all the things we can be grateful for.  I know it sounds silly, but when you start to count all the things that are working it makes you see some joy in your life.  You will also start to realize you have the tools you need to get through anything that is going on in your life.  Also, you will realize everything is temporary; this too shall pass.
Nothing truly works out as our own plan.  There is Divine Planning that is going on all around us.  We need to go through situations so we can learn and grow.  Look at the situation you are currently in, what is it that you need to learn from it.  Are you the one who has to learn from the action, or are you a part of someone else’s growth.  You have to start looking at all sides of a situation and start to realize everything is happening for you, even if you may not understand at the time. 

Whenever we look in hind-sight, we seem to get it…but if you are someone who only sees the negative, you will continue to be stuck and unhappy.  Change the way you see the world by changing the way you see yourself in it.  Start to see yourself as someone being powerful no matter the situation.  You will see the world change all around you.

Have an amazing day!!!
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Just Rita Real Talk


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Don't let your past define you, let it create you.

1/9/2019

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​Good morning my beautiful friends…I hope you are finding yourselves well.

I came across this inspiration today, and I thought to myself “How great it would be to expand upon this on my show tomorrow.”  It is a great topic to start my radio show up again; the holidays are over and it’s time for a new us.
“I may not know where I am going, but I’ll be dammed if I’m going where I have been.”  Think about that quote for a minute…How many times do we catch ourselves thinking and obsessing about the past?  How we could have, should have or would have done something different.  However, we never think about how it was done; actually the way it was meant to be done. 

We always look for so many opportunities to beat ourselves up and drive ourselves crazy.  We need to start realizing that we can never go back and change the past; all we can do is realize the lesson, accept it and move on.  Once we start to take those steps, we start to realize that everything is actually working for our highest good. 

We never know where we are going.  We may have a plan for ourselves, but how it unfolds is not our plan.  We need to keep moving forward no matter what.  What keeps us trapped in our past is the fear of what was and what may be.  We need to remember that no matter what we have gone through, we have learned and we won’t have to go through it again.  Although, if we don’t learn the lesson, it is possible we may have to continue dealing with an issue until we learn what need to be realized. 

Staying stuck in our past, going over and over again what occurred will also keep us trapped.  It is one thing to learn from the past, and be who we are today because of it.  But, it’s another to stay stuck and not move forward in our life.  There is a good portion of us who have gone through something terrible in our past, some of us grow from it, and some of us are debilitated by it.  We always have the choice to choose how are life is going to go; no matter what happens we can always rise and grow every time.

When I look back at my life, especially 2018, I see how much I have grown and how strong I am.  I see there is not anything that I can’t do or figure out.  I have seen how I responded to situations and came out on top, along with some other situations where I gave my power away.  In the times of relinquishing my power, I saw where I could have let things go and not engage in the drama; from that I grew and I am grateful.  I also regained my power back by learning the lesson.

We all can do it…we need to keep our eyes on our own prize and keep moving forward.  Don’t let anyone or anything get in your way.  There is always a way to move forward, you just need to learn how to be creative and stick to it. 

Have an amazing day my friends.
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Just Rita Real Talk

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    Rita OWEN

    I have been through a lot in my life just as everyone else; I have found that what I have gone through has always been for my highest good.  There is not a thing that I would change in my life; I would keep the good, the bad, and the ugly.

    Sharing my lessons with you helps me to be the best version of myself.  What I have learned, I share so you are the best version of yourself.  

    When we stand together we are strong and tall making a more confident and loving world.  We are forgiving our past and embracing all that is learned.  We then are teaching our children to be human and the best version of themselves.

    Rita Owen 



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