Have you ever stopped and thought about how you think and talk? Have you ever noticed how you react to things instead of responding to them in a different way? Have you ever noticed how much you attract the stuff into your life that you don't want?
When I think about those questions, I am looking at my life and who I am being in the moments that matter. I used to be someone who would agree with someone else's attitude and draw that energy into mine. You know what I am talking about; the ones who say nothing good happens to them, or if it will happen it will happen to them. Then I would start to notice that I would start to have crappy things happen to me.
One of the hardest things I had to learn was changing my language and how I talked to myself. When I agreed with someone's negative attitude, I would notice the same things happening to me. When I started to say to myself, "that may be true for you, but it is not true for me" I would change the way things were happening around me. I would notice that their energy was not leaking into mine. I also noticed how much happier I was becoming.
When you start to really pay attention to what you think and say, and you start to change your behavior; your whole world will change very quickly. I have been practicing this new way of being for the past couple of years. I have to say the more I see everything from a different perspective; I am not suffering in my life. I find that my world is becoming what I have always desired. I attract the people in my life who will keep my vibration high. I attract the love that I have always been longing for my entire life.
One thing that has really come into my life is love. As I have really started to say loving kind things to myself and really believe it, I have been able to attract the kind of love I have always desired. I have received the most beautiful man into my life, because he matches the love I have for myself. It's as if God place the most precious gift right in front of me. I am at a place in my life where I now only speak love into me, and I have received someone in my life that is showing me what true love is. I have never experienced love from someone as I am with this amazing man. When I brought my son into this world that was the first time I experienced; a mother's love. I have two very special men in my life that are showing me things about love I never knew could be possible.
When you start to look at everything in your life from a different perspective and see the lesson in all of it...you get to receive gifts you never would have imagined. I am so grateful at this time in my life. The world that is swirling around me is amazing and I would never change a thing in my life.
Take a look at how you think and speak, along with looking at a situation that is going on in your life. Where can you make some changes so you can be experiencing the very best?
Have an amazing day my friends.
Just Rita Real Talk