Too many times we feel victim to our lives, we feel like the world is out to get us. But in reality life is responding to our thoughts. I have been experiencing so many wonderful opportunities because I have changed my mind set. I started to take responsibility for what I have been focusing on; which had been causing me grief, heartache and anguish. I then decided to change my mindset and start focusing on what I wanted to create instead of what I didn't want.
Many times we get caught up in an event that has occurred instead of looking at what was learned. When you start to look at the lesson, the event seems to go away. I hear some of you screaming “but I have been through this terrible thing” and “this has happened to me” and “this person died”...I can go on with all the possibilities that have occurred; trust me I understand. However, you can either lie down and let the world swallow you up, or you can chose to learn and be different. The pain will be their but you will be able to heal and change your life.
It can be a tough pill to swallow if you chose to be different, but the rewards are amazing. I have been through many difficult times in my life; but I have always been a fighter. I have always refused to give up and let the world swallow me up. It's sad when you watch someone give up in life and I could never do that to my son. Life has given me many lessons to overcome and trust me some were not fun...but when I learned and changed, the world became a magical place for me and my whole family.
Start to look at what is going on in your life and then start to think about what it is you really want. Then start to create the vision and focus your thoughts on your vision. You will be amazed at how quickly your life will change.
Until we meet again!!!
Just Rita Real Talk