SHINING BRIGHT ON YOU
  • Home
  • Blog
  • Just Rita Real Talk Radio
  • Product
  • Vlogging
  • The Daily with the Angels
Be The FLASHLIGHT Shining BRIGHT on YOUR GREATNESS

new beginnings...acknowledge your pain

5/7/2018

0 Comments

 
Picture
Whenever you are starting something new, you are saying good bye to something; old behaviors, relationships, work, home, etc.  As we grow, we learn a lot; sometimes what we learn is not the most exciting, wonderful or even safe things to learn, but we keep moving forward.  We will push down and burry old feelings, memories, experiences, whatever we don't want to deal with; but it always surfaces one way or another until we acknowledge it.
I have come across some of my friends dealing with these types of issues that I have been able to help them with, because I too have had to deal with my stuff.  The Stuff always seems to rear its head when you least expect it; someone comes for a visit, you find something out about someone, you hear a comment or even just a sound that will put you in a tail spin...Suddenly you have turned into Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
When I got married for the 2nd time, I thought everything was going to be perfect.  I finally had everything I was looking for; a man who understood, someone who I can share everything with, a father for my child who he could look up too.  It was, I thought, a match made from heaven.  Within a few short months my world as I knew it would come crashing down.  Everything I had ever stuffed down beneath my toes would come erupting up.  I was dealing with stuff that I never thought I would have to think about again.  My 2nd marriage took quite a hit when I had to dive in my pain and realize that it was not being hidden any longer.  I had to do a lot of work on myself, so I could participate in my life and in my marriage.
I find, if you don't deal with your demons, your demons will come find you, so you do deal with them.  You can't escape, you are meant to realize everything has happened for your highest good; that may be a tough pill to swallow, but you need to deal with it.  I was a victim of my life for a long time until I decided to deal with my demons and realize who I am today is because of what I had gone through.  I look back at my life and see a strong little girl who kept on fighting for herself, I also see a woman who is an inspiration to many because of what I went through.  I am no different from anyone around me, I just dealt with my pain.

Tune in Thursday at Noon to hear the live broadcast on this topic.  

Just Rita Real Talk



Please share this post. Thank you and tune into Just Rita Real Talk Live Radio at www.LiveBlogTalkRadio.com
0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Rita OWEN

    I have been through a lot in my life just as everyone else; I have found that what I have gone through has always been for my highest good.  There is not a thing that I would change in my life; I would keep the good, the bad, and the ugly.

    Sharing my lessons with you helps me to be the best version of myself.  What I have learned, I share so you are the best version of yourself.  

    When we stand together we are strong and tall making a more confident and loving world.  We are forgiving our past and embracing all that is learned.  We then are teaching our children to be human and the best version of themselves.

    Rita Owen 



    Archives

    January 2023
    May 2022
    March 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    October 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    April 2020
    January 2020
    December 2019
    August 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    November 2017
    October 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    November 2016
    August 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013

    RSS Feed

Proudly powered by Weebly