Today's blog I write with a heavy and yet light heart. It breaks my heart to watch my son deal with a situation where we are not sure what the outcome will be. Although I know deep down in the depths of my soul everything will work out for his highest good. I continue to pray that he sees his situation as a blessing in disguise and not something that is against him. However, who he is as a human being and a young man, I am sure he will see the positive side of it all.
That brings me to the rest of us...we are not our mistakes. That is so important to know and understand. No matter what lesson we have learned in life or had to repeat the lesson in order to really get it...we are not those mistakes. We are the lessons that we have learned and the forgiveness we are to ourselves and others.
No matter what has happened in our past or actions we have done; again, we are not our past either. Everyone was put on this earth to learn lessons. We all have special gifts inside of us to share with the world. Sometimes we get off track and we need a jolt to bring us back. If we truly understood this, we would not be continually punishing ourselves and making our lives miserable. Think about that...what an amazing thought.
We are not what others expect of us...WOW!!! We aren't! No one person can put on us an expectation...we can't expect anyone to be what we think they should be. Everyone here on this planet is here for a purpose, what that purpose is has nothing to do with us. The only thing that concerns us is our own purpose. What I have learned is that my son is here because I brought him into this world; but he is here because he has his own path and journey to be on and learn from. I have given him the tools to live and grow, but it is truly up to him to figure it all out. When I look back on my own life...no one was there for me, I had to figure it out and learn my own lessons. What is amazing for my son while going through his lesson is that he has me and his dad for support. We need to be the support and not put upon expectations.
We truly are a Divine Being having a human experience. Think about it...when we pass on, our souls leave and the body is left behind. We are true spirit using the bodies...We need to truly love who we are and know we are here for a reason. No matter what we do in life, lessons we need to learn or relearn we are amazing beings. Our lights shine bright if we only allow ourselves to grow and go through what we are meant to go through. No matter how bleak your situation may look like; always look at the positive side of things. Find something that is positive in the situation you are in. Once you are able to do that you will be able to get through it with grace and ease. You will have learned the lesson on the first try rather than have to keep trying to get it.
Be loving and kind to yourself; know that no matter what is happening in your life, you are amazing and filled with Gods' love. You deserve the best in life. If you don't quit you will truly get what you deserve. Have an amazing day my friends. Until we meet again...
With all my love...Rita