The past few days I have been sharing with you how I battle with myself, especially when I have had some wins. I am always trying to better myself and create quite an extraordinary life. However what comes with that is a lot of challenges and obstacles.
When we make decisions to change or to make things better for ourselves; we tend to want it ASAP. We put so much pressure on ourselves, we feel like we should be moving along quicker than we are. Here's the thing, we have made the decision to change....that truly is the hard part. Putting it into action and getting over the obstacles that come with it is the journey. There is no time limit on that journey.
As I am writing this blog, I am realizing the pressure I have put upon myself. I always feel like I should be better than I am, really knocking the sox off of everyone. I put unneeded pressure on myself; I fall into the trap of "Am I Good ENOUGH"? It's so funny, my whole blog is about already being good enough and yet I fall into this crazy trap.
Here it is...I am showing you that we all fall into it, and we can all get out of it. You can't quit yourself; you have to keep going no matter what and no matter how hard you fall. I am showing you that we are all human and this will happen over and over again. We need to realize that it takes time to achieve what we have decided to do. We can expect ourselves to have everything achieved and be perfect right away...we need to learn and grow to keep what it is that we want.
We need to start giving ourselves the grace of patience. We need to start enjoying the journey and what it has to teach us.
Until we meet again my friends...
With all my love...Rita